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ReginaaPhalangee
I’m sure some of you remember my post last month about being pregnant with our third and final baby. We wanted 3 under 4 (my oldest will be 3 next month, 3.5 when baby was due) and then December babe. Perfect timing. Husband and I were overjoyed.
Well. I went for my first ultrasound yesterday and baby was measuring 2 weeks behind with no heartbeat. I go back in a week essentially to confirm the loss.
I’m not sure what I’m expecting out of this post. This is my first loss and I just feel broken. I never knew how truly physical sadness could be.
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CheddarBunny336
I remember congratulating you for your pregnancy news last month. I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️
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ReginaaPhalangee
@CheddarBunny336,
thank you ��
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Rabd190
I’m so sorry. This is so hard. Feel your feelings, cry, do all the things you need. There are no words.
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ReginaaPhalangee
@Rabd190,
the feelings are so heavy.
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momOfAsweetAngel
i am terribly sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve, and make time for your mental health. I still mourn the loss of my baby girl who was stillborn at 23W5d. I wish I could say it gets better, but for me I still think of her and talk to her every single day...This November will be 3 years. Hug your earthly babies extra tight and give it to God. 🙏 I will be praying for you and your family. 💚💜🦋
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ReginaaPhalangee
@momOfAsweetAngel,
oh my goodness I can’t even begin to imagine. I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss.
I truly believe this is something I’ll always feel.
Thank you for your prayers.
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LeeLee4400
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had 7 so I completely feel your pain. I wish you all the best ❤️ take time to heal, hug your other babies and husband. appreciate everything you have also.
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ReginaaPhalangee
@LeeLee4400,
7. Oh my goodness. I’m so sorry. I am honestly scared to try again as I cannot imagine feeling this pain again. Trying to just be grateful for what I have, it’s just so bleak this morning.
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jessicaaflemingg
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ praying for you and your family as your process the loss of your sweet babe
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ReginaaPhalangee
@jessicaaflemingg,
thank you ��
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Bheath24
How many weeks are you? Could it just be too early?
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ReginaaPhalangee
@Bheath24,
should be 8w3d today.. there should have been a heartbeat ��
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babygirlarrived
I’m so so sorry ��
Is it anyway possible that baby is still too young to find a heartbeat?
Maybe there’s hope?
Praying and sending all the positive energy your way��
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ReginaaPhalangee
@babygirlarrived,
thank you for your prayers. I appreciate it.
I should be 8w3d today so unfortunately, there should have been a heartbeat.
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babygirlarrived
@ReginaaPhalangee,
Go to November group and read the post “Am I out or in”. It’s relatable to you, positive stories.
have hope! ����
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ReginaaPhalangee
@babygirlarrived,
will do, thank you!
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mammallamma22
I'm so sorry your going through this. I have aswell and I wouldn't wish it on anyone ever. I wish I had the perfect words to make it better. sending healing vibes your way
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ReginaaPhalangee
@mammallamma22,
thank you ��
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BethiChik
I got pregnant November 2023 and had the same experience at our first appointment. I miscarried over New Years. I was thrilled to be expecting in Augustt 2024 and have babies 20 months apart.
I’m so sorry you too have to go through this. Months later it’s still difficult for me to realize and understand.
My heart goes out to you.
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ReginaaPhalangee
@BethiChik,
I’m sorry you have felt this pain as well. It’s the worst thing I’ve ever felt.
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cassierose0612
I'm so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy happened just like this, followed by another miscarriage, before I had my son. I'm due in June with my second boy. I still have many days where I think about how, once this baby is born, we could have had an almost 4 year old, almost 3 year old, 1.5 year old, and a newborn.
Take time to grieve. I'm so sorry.
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ReginaaPhalangee
@cassierose0612,
I’m sorry for your losses. Congratulations on baby 2. Thank you for your kind words.
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